Book of Memories for Melanie Anne McArthur

Condolence From Lynn Tomkins

Fri, 04 May 2018 20:13:28 EDT

Dear Rod, I have just discovered today that Melanie passed away last November. I am so very shocked and sorry to learn this terribly sad news. I have such fond memories of her as a vibrant and gracious woman from the time I worked with you in Newcastle. I remember staying with your family to go night skiing at Kirby and how warmly welcome Mel made me feel. Please accept my deepest condolences, I feel terrible that I did not know earlier, I would have attended her memorial service out of respect and affection for you both. Again, please accept my sincere sympathy, Warm Regards, Lynn

Condolence From Caroline and Brian McNamara

Wed, 29 Nov 2017 17:30:17 EST

Dear Rod and Family, It is with such sadness that I learned today of Melanie's passing. Melanie was a wonderful person who was so full of enthusiasm and joy. I can't imagine how difficult her loss is for all of you and for those in her community who loved her so dearly. Our deepest sympathy is extended as we remember a life well-lived. Fondly, Caroline and Brian

Condolence From Anne & Andy Cawker

Sun, 19 Nov 2017 08:09:10 EST

My dear friend, Mel. I shall honour you each day by keeping active & fit, by serving my community, and most of all, by honouring my grandchildren, my children, and my family.

Condolence From David and Sherry Shrives

Sat, 18 Nov 2017 12:55:47 EST

Dear Rod and family We are very sad to hear of Melanie's death. It is particularly sad, as she was full of life and had more things to do. Her accomplishments are endless...your four accomplished children, her support of St. George's, her charities, her amazing bridge skills. I still think of the delicious Christmas Cake I won at the Silent Auction for OSPS, with icing!and packaged perfectly in a Christmas tin. Keep well. Love the Shrives

Condolence From Karen Cashin

Sat, 18 Nov 2017 10:19:18 EST

Sincere condolences to Rod and family. Mel touched so many of our lives and influenced so many people and projects! I consider my life to be better for having known her.

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Fri, 17 Nov 2017 13:55:29 EST

Anyone who has had the good fortune to have walked into the McArthur house knows that you were always welcomed like an old friend who had been genuinely missed. I am forever grateful to Mel and Rod for their welcoming, supportive, and caring natures during my formative years (as are every friend of any of the younger McArthur clan). I remember being initially very intimidated by Mrs. McArthur (it took awhile to say Melanie) because I hadn’t encountered someone with her level of life force. It was intuitively obvious, then as a teenager, and even moreso now as an adult, that Melanie committed her energies to the important parts of life - her family, friends, nature, beauty, truth and justice. I feel privileged that I got to see, feel, hear, smell, & taste what a good life actually lived encompasses. Melanie’s example left an undeniable mark on how I approach life and I one day hope to do it with as much passion, grace, and care as she did. Her spark ignited and lives on as a guiding light of goodness in everyone lucky enough to have met her.

Thank you,

Brock

Condolence From Chuck and Fenella MacWhirter

Fri, 17 Nov 2017 10:26:48 EST

Allison and Liam and kids and to Rod: We are very sorry for your loss.

Condolence From Vaughan and Betsy Glover

Fri, 17 Nov 2017 06:41:11 EST

Rod and family, Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to you! Melanie's sparkling eyes, beautiful smile and sincere love of life, people and nature, brightened every space she entered. Mel genuinely made a difference in this world and the lives of everyone she touched. Love Vaughan and Betsy

Condolence From Deria & Dwight Hickson

Thu, 16 Nov 2017 16:22:34 EST

Our deepest sympathies to you Rod and your Family at this tragic time. She will continue to live in your hearts and through you always.

Condolence From Morley and Bonnie Aitken

Thu, 16 Nov 2017 16:06:20 EST

Our deepest sympathies to you Rod and your family on the passing of your wife Melanie.

Condolence From Linda Hanssen

Thu, 16 Nov 2017 15:02:16 EST

Rod and family I am so sorry to learn of the passing of Melanie. Your family contributed to the success of many activities at BSPS. The play 'Oliver' was a particular achievement! Tammy, Jay and Drew convey their sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Linda Hansen

Condolence From tony & betty ann wood

Wed, 15 Nov 2017 13:29:34 EST

Rod - kids & grandkids Our love and prayers to you all at this very sad time Such a huge loss to bear. Remember all the great events spent with Mel and keep her smile in your hearts sincerest sympathy - Tony & Betty Ann Wood & family

Condolence From Kevin McEwen

Tue, 14 Nov 2017 19:48:57 EST

Dear Uncle Rod & McArthur Family, Early on when my Dad and Rod became Dentistry partners at the University of Toronto, no one could ever imagine the success, bond or memories their families would share. From camping and cottages, to ski vacations or a trip to the Toronto Zoo. We we're tight. Even though many years have past and time rolls on, these memories are fresh and warm. I hold them dear to my heart. I hope they comfort you at this time God has given us to reflect. "Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results." I think Mel is the perfect example of this...With my own challenges in life I cannot imagine what it takes but, True Friends will help you stay on track and never forget. Love Always The McEwen Family

Condolence From Carol and Ron Hooper

Tue, 14 Nov 2017 13:57:26 EST

Dear Ron and Family This is such a sad time for all of you. Mel was such a beautiful person and you will miss her so much. You do have so many wonderful memories to share though. She would only want you to be happy. With Love Ron and Carol

Condolence From Donna Kay

Tue, 14 Nov 2017 13:34:53 EST

Mel..my friend for so many years on parent groups at Ontario Street, BSP, BHS and of course the proud parents at BHS plays...20 years together at the gym...your smile lit up the world wherever you went....God Bless my friend Donna Sincere condolences Rod,Alison,Kit,Fraser,Nick and families Donna and John Kay

Memorial Candle lit by Mike & Gayle Willoughby

Tue, 14 Nov 2017 11:10:23 EST

Mike & Gayle Willoughby

Condolence From Patti(Kay) Lockhart and family

Tue, 14 Nov 2017 07:29:32 EST

Our hearts are with you all. A shining light in the world has gone out. We have fond memories of a beautiful and caring woman. Kit ,lots of love to you and your family.

Condolence From Kevin & Lori Foster

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 20:54:58 EST

Our deepest sympathies to our niece (Alison) Liam, boys and the entire family.

Condolence From Rudy and Kim Kraayvanger

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 19:44:39 EST

To Rod, Alison, Kit, Fraser and Nick, and the families Our deepest condolences to you all, and blessing on behalf of the Kraayvanger family. You have been great neighbours, friends and customers; and it was always wonderful to get-together with your family. We continue to appreciate the joy and kindness your Mom has brought into our lives May God continue to be your strength.

Condolence From J. Roger (Senior) and Norma

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 16:23:36 EST

Our deepest sympathy Rod, and also to Mel's Mother, Alison, Christian, Fraser, Nick, Pete and Julie, what a void that great lady will leave. We send our dearest love to you all and are so sorry we cannot be with you. Take good care of each other. Love from the whole Yates Family. Roger and Norma

Condolence From Tracey and Roger Yates

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 14:43:56 EST

Our most heartfelt condolences to the you and your entire family. We will cherish the last few opportunities we had to spend time with Mel at the Bond Head Spring clean-up and the garden party. With love, Tracey, Roger, Austin and Samantha Yates

Condolence From Brian Reid

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 14:16:34 EST

Rod and family: So so sorry to hear of your loss. We were so fortunate to have had Mel as part of our Nature Area Committee where she seemed so much in her element. My wife and I often bumped into her at various concerts and events in the community as well.She was such an interesting and enjoyable person to associate with and will be missed by so many. Our deepest sympathies. Brian and Eve-Ann Reid

Condolence From Trudie Reid

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 13:49:42 EST

My deepest sympathies to you, Rod, and your family. Trudie Reid

Condolence From Doug & Carol Cyphery

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 11:26:34 EST

Rod and family, Mel loved life and lived it to it's fullest every day creating special memories for her family and friends. We share your loss and will always remember the many good times we had together. Love Doug, Carol, Natalie, Dean, and Ben Cyphery

Condolence From Linsey (Vanderwater) Hammond

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 11:15:02 EST

I was so very sorry to hear of your loss! As a "long lost" high school friend of Melanie's , I was so fortunate to reconnect with her at a reunion a small group of us organized a few years ago. She was busy and so involved in the lives of her family and friends and had many wonderful stories about her travels and her life. I will remember that joy and energy whenever I think of her.

Condolence From Bill and Donna Dingwall

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 10:19:58 EST

Rod, We were saddened to hear of Melanie's passing, she was such a lovely person. Cherish your family memories and times together. We are thinking of you.

Condolence From Dave and Pat Neale

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 08:52:41 EST

Rod: Pat and I are very sorry to hear about Mel. Our deepest sympathies and condolences are with you during this difficult time. Mel's energy and charismatic smile will always be remembered. Unfortunately, we are unable to attend the service; as we are out of the country but our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. Dave and Pat Neale.

Condolence From Bonnie and Jeff Greer

Mon, 13 Nov 2017 01:02:36 EST

So sorry to hear of Mel’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers for you and your family at this difficult time.

Condolence From Tom &Helen Simpson

Sun, 12 Nov 2017 18:18:37 EST

Are Condolences, are prays are with you and family. God bless.

Condolence From Jim Hossack

Sun, 12 Nov 2017 14:52:56 EST

So sorry to hear. My sincere condolences to you. Peace Profound.

Condolence From Jodi Marjerrison

Sun, 12 Nov 2017 14:49:30 EST

Rod and family, We are so sorry to hear about Mel's passing. She was always such a fun person to be around and play tennis with. She will be missed. Our deepest condolences, Jodi, Ian, Jack and Ewan.

Condolence From Susan and Rob Summerby-Murray

Sun, 12 Nov 2017 09:58:32 EST

Fraser, Meg, and Family, Deepest condolences on the passing of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Condolence From Julie Gray Miller

Sun, 12 Nov 2017 08:26:18 EST

Dear Rod, my deepest sympathies to you and your family for the loss of a wonderful wife,mother and grandmother. Mel was such a special lady and always had a smile on her face. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Condolence From Maryetta McDowell

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 23:12:11 EST

We are so very sad and sorry to learn of Melanie's passing Our deepest condolences to you Rod and your family with love Hugh /Maryetta

Condolence From Linda Taberner

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 19:01:49 EST

Dear Rod, I am so sorry that Mel has lost her long battle and extend my deepest sympathy to you and the family. She has been taken from you far too soon but you have been so blessed to have such a wonderful woman in your lives. Her energy and enthusiasm for everything she took on was a shining example to us all, and I've admired her for the many years I've known her, since La Leche League days, right through our projects with FOCUS and the Stephen Lewis Foundation. She will be missed by many but will live on in our hearts.

Condolence From Jane and Art

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 18:06:15 EST

Dear Rod and family, So so sorry. We send our sympathy. We regret not being able to personally extend our condolences at a visitation. We are in New Zealand until the end of the month. Mel’s compassion for others and her zest for life and adventure has inspired us and will continue to do so. Sincerely Jane and Art.r

Condolence From Sandra & David Walton-Ball

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 15:46:46 EST

Melanie was our neighbour & will be missed in Bond Head. She was an inspiration with her various charitable efforts, particularly as the hostess on Canada Day celebrations. Rod & family our sincere condolences. Sandra & David Walton-Ball, Owen Sound, ON

Condolence From Bonnie and Harold Anfossi

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 15:25:53 EST

We are so sad to learn of Mel’s passing.... Our deepest condolences to you Rod, and your entire family, we are so sorry for your loss.

Condolence From Bob and Aletha McArthur

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 13:37:24 EST

We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you and your family today and in the days ahead. Love from your cousin Bob and Aletha McArthur

Condolence From Susan Hendricks

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 13:24:26 EST

Dear Rod and family, I just opened my Saturday Globe & Mail here in Winnipeg. Remembering the good times with Mel, working to support the Stephen Lewis Foundation and sharing our women's experience of life in our FOCUS group. Mel so fully embraced living in all its joy and sorrow. May her spirit soar and be one with the Universe once more. Sending prayers to you all.

Condolence From Gord and Liz Currie

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 11:06:11 EST

Our deepest sympathy is offered to Melanie's mother, Rod and his family. Mel and I became connected at our fitness classes and we were spinning and Pilates buddies. We shared common interests in family, health, travel adventures, the Stephen Lewis Foundation and mutual friends. We shared many laughs and stories and Mel always thought about other people rather than herself. Her love of life, sports and cats were infectious and I always left fitness classes feeling energized and content with my life after we had spent time together. She will remain a special person and classy lady in my heart and will be missed by all who knew and loved her very much.

Condolence From Shirley-Anne (McArthur) Rathbone

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 11:01:32 EST

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all today. Although we rarely managed to meet, we heard your news through the family grapevine over the years. Bless you all

Condolence From Grant Desjardine & Linda Currie

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 09:52:13 EST

To the McArthur family, we are both so very sorry for your loss of Mel, we know she fought a hard battle, she was a truly wonderful lady. Our deepest condolences to all of you.

Condolence From Fred & Vicky Morton, Yarmouth, NS

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 09:21:25 EST

Dear Rod & Family It is with the greatest of sadness that we read of the passing of your lovely wife. I am sure you all have many wonderful memories to keep her fresh in your minds as you go forward, through the healing process. We know that she will be sadly missed by you and your family. OUR sincere condolences to you all during this very sad time.

Condolence From Mary Walton-Ball

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 09:19:29 EST

My deepest sympathy and condolences to the McArthur family. I have many fond summer memories of walking with Melanie at Bond Head. Her love of animals, especially cats, always touched me deeply.With love, Mary Walton-Ball

Condolence From Jane Lacey

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 08:47:54 EST

Dear Rod and Family, Extending my sympathy to all of you at this sad and difficult time. I always very much enjoyed playing tennis with Mel and feel fortunate to have known her. Remembering all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

Condolence From Teresa DeCicco

Sat, 11 Nov 2017 07:31:58 EST

Dear Rod and Family. We are so very sad and sorry to hear of Mel’s passing. The beautiful memories of her are woven into our hearts with her generosity and kindness-especially for the boys and I in our early years together. With Love Teresa, Walt, Matt and Anthony

Condolence From Melody Austin-Wood

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 19:03:18 EST

Jim and I were very sadden to hear about Mel`s passing. Over the years, I enjoyed being her doubles partner on the tennis court (Mel and Mel) and her friend off the court. We also enjoyed walking our dogs (Chloe and Benji) at Samuel Wilmot Nature Centre ,gardening and having tea together. Melanie was such a vibrant, warm and kind person. I feel lucky to have spent time with someone so genuine. She will always have a special place in my heart. Wishing Rod and family strength during this difficult time. Sincerely, Melody Austin-Wood

Memorial Candle lit by Dave and Pat Neale

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 18:39:38 EST

Dave and Pat Neale

Condolence From Sherree & Joe Donald

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 17:38:06 EST

Rod and Family, our heartfelt condolences, she was a lovely lady inside and out. Sherree and Joe

Memorial Candle lit by Bill and Rhonda Armstrong

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 17:36:43 EST

Bill and Rhonda Armstrong

Condolence From Randy & Joan McNaughton

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 14:47:37 EST

Randy and I would love to offer our sincere condolences to Melanie’s mother, Rod, Alison, Christian, Fraser and Nick as well as the whole family at this sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We knew Melanie as a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother and she will be certainly missed by us all. Sincerely, Randy and Joan McNaughton

Condolence From Marilou Kane

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 14:05:36 EST

My thoughts and prayers are with Rod and Family during this difficult time. Mel, an exceptional person who blessed me with her friendship. Mel, "You are an inspiration. You are real. You teach by your wisdom and lead by your grace. You are tenderness, strength and laughter. You are spirit. You are dignity. You are womanhood defined." (Maya Angelou).

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Fri, 10 Nov 2017 09:27:04 EST